I haven't updated lately...largely because everything is just so good right now I'm afraid of jinxing it ;)
Okay, not EVERYTHING is good...we need to work on managing our money better...I've regained 5 lost pounds...the electric bill is through the roof...but who needs perfection when you have genuine happiness?
We both knew that it would be a challenge to go from living 800 miles apart to living together, but honestly I think we're doing a great job at learning to share and compromise. And when I say we, I mostly mean he, because I have a long way to go in overcoming my tendency to get frustrated/impatient easily.
If only he could get a spot on first shift...it would make a lot of things easier on both of us. So, fingers crossed...
Cat,
ReplyDeleteGood to hear some is going so well. 90% of the other stuff can b fixed with a little creative planning, and faith in yourself. Being a guy, I am very prone to offering advice, solutions and "fixing" things, but I have decided to hold off.
I have realized that a bit of encouragement "GO Cat! GO!" might go a little farther and there would be no expectations.
I will however say that I have been in a pressure cooker of stress recently, (Work, School, Relationship, Health, etc.) and I decided to just go against convention and express my frustration (for a minute or two) and then move on and try to get things done. I guess that is advice... Hmm.
Anyway, know that you are in my thoughts and I hear ya on where you are, and I hope the best for you too.
- B